Is this civilised community?

Saw a lady sitting in the train and putting onvher make ups before I got in to at Stratford,  which was the last station gor that train and I was the first one to get in. I thought she was clever and got in to the train at Hackney Wick to beat the crowd.  I got a seat right in front of her. The train attender came around with his bin bag and collected news papers, coffee cups and all other rubbish belongs to the civilised people of London!  In 10min time train packed with people announced ready leave she was hurring and hurdling through the crowd. The train was so  crowded she had to struggle to get off. And  now she started swaring at people! In the hurry she dropped all the metro papers on which she was sitting.  At last in between the warnings of the driver 'please don't obstruct the doors if the doors damaged we have to take this train out of service that may cause delays to services' she got off. Next lady well dressed occupaied that seat in front of me just stepped on those magazines and opened her own metro and started reading it. Once she finished reading dropped her metro on the floor and got off at conenburry!
I remember a guy use to travel in the same train. He use to get up at Camden Road and he was 6foot plus well built and dressed. If he finds anyone leaving their news magazine or coffee cups,  he use to call the and hand over to them and asked them to take their rubbish. Unfortunately I don't have that personality and I had the bad experience of me doing that. I feel frustrated and enoyed by myself why not me like him. I have done that in india. Is that I am scared I am in a foreign land?