Kids

Y Kumar gone back to India permanently he is a friend of me since we were 8th standard. Very good man with short temper!!! He is been always by my side encouraging me to do what I want to do. A man should love the family at the same time he is the direction for the family. I have seen lots of family with man in back seat, (with all due respect to ladies) for the success of the family always man should be in the front. I had seen in our family my father always had last say but he always asked my mother for the suggestions. We as kids never had options to talk about their decisions. Even today I am not totally confident to talk in front of father still that fear not because he beat me it’s only a look!!!!!!
As a kid I always felt that my parents were wrong but now? We had our own discipline at home. I still remember all of us should be ready for dinner when dad says its time for dinner. Since he was working, dinner was the only time we had together. We had our own designated place as well with our own designated plates. No confusion, no excuse. If we couldn’t attend this gathering no food!!!!!!
We didn’t had door to the house! I remember one night when I was 8 or 9 years old I said I am frightened, Amma made me to stand in the dark for half an hour and appa asked me what is fear? I never had a dare to say fear again!!
Whatever our parents did its for our good future only.
Kids are like clay, mould it give a shape and dry them they take beautiful shape! If you don’t know how to shape them or if we act like we don’t know then we will have to repent one day. Everybody like their kids and family but when it needs we need to be bit strong, better to be bit strong than the things go beyond control and had to take a harsh decision!!!!